One of Those People

Hi everyone :)

I don't know if this just happens to me or what it even is, that makes these certain people in my life a little bit more special than others, because some of them just are.

I have recently came to realise that I have 2 people in my life that instantly cheer me up when I see them or even just hear from them. There is no way I can be in a bad mood around them. I don't know why that is but it is great.

One of them is my best friend. You have read about him many times before on here and he still doesn't want me to feature him with a picture but I promise one day I'll get him to agree :)

He is able to make me smile with a text that says: Hi. It's ridiculous almost but true. There is not much he has to do and I will be in a good mood. He jut has that affect on me and it makes spending time with him so much easier, because even if we talk about something completely serious I know I will not go home feeling sad. 

But with him I'm not really surprised that this happens, I mean we have know each other most of our lives after all. 

The person that surprised me however was a friend from uni. She is such a positive person I honestly have no idea how she does it. She seems to understand me in a way that I can not begin to describe. I sometimes feel like she knows me better than I do although we haven't even known each other for more than 6 months (correct me if I'm wrong please).

Her being around me brings out a very playful side of me and I sometimes think that people surrounding us think we are crazy, but that is the good thing about her: She doesn't care what others think of us and when I'm with her I don't either. 

We act childish and draw hearts on our faces to goto movie premieres. That's just how we are and we are not ashamed of it. 

Even if I get up super early to go see her, as soon as I am with her all of the -grumpy-morning-me is gone. I can not be sad around her it's just not possible. 

And I believe that I have some good influence on her too. I'm starting to crack the little shell she has been living in and showing her how life looks from my perspective. 

We can learn from each other.

She is that one person that makes me happy and challenges me to be more to evolve. In a way that I didn't think was possible. 

We giggle like schoolgirls and joke like idiots and yet I wouldn't want to change a thing.

She just is one of those people that is a little more special than the rest of my friends. 

Just yesterday I found another 'one of those people'. 

Do you know that feeling of just instantly feeling save around someone even if you don't really know them yet?

I didn't realise I felt that way about this person until now. 

He is one of my friends in New Zealand, a very special friend that I have been missing a lot. He is very honest and wise without even realising that he is. He is the person that will tell you how special you are and how much you mean to them without knowing how much you needed to hear that in that exact moment. 

Recently a lot of my friend from New Zealand have asked if they should come pick me up from the airport. And don't get me wrong I love them all to bits but I just wasn't sure. And yet when he asked I instantly knew that this was the reason why I hadn't wanted the others to come pick me up. Knowing he would be at the airport to come pick me up calmed me down. It took a lot of my nervousness away and I was sure that I had made the right decision. And adding the fact that he was just as excited as I was made it even better :)

That is when I started to think back at the moment we had met and it became clear to me that we didn't actually know that much about each other and yet I felt like I had known him my whole life.

When we met I felt the connection and I felt save and like I had just come home to an old friend. 

He is 'one of those people' that you feel comfortable with a second after you have met them. 

I don't have many of 'those people' but the ones I have are even more special now that I have realised this.

They make my life a lot easier and I truly hope you have one of 'those people' as well. Maybe another one of 'those people'? I would love to know. 

How does this certain person make you feel? Save? Happy? Special?

x

J.